This is a very important word in life ain't it?
When people can't communicate well, problems arise. If they're not handled well with the right communication skills, it blows off like a volcano. I've seen things happen when people or parties who can't get along well due to either lack of communication or miscommunication.
What do you do, when miscommunication happen? You didn't do what the other party claimed you did, but evidence seems to prove otherwise.. You sit calmly and try telling the person who's mad of you that you didn't? Been there, done that, not exactly effective, but self satisfactory. The ability to be calm and to find out the real solution of a miscommunication is important as things can't be done when both parties yell to the top of their lungs not wanting to budge an inch from their point of views.
There are always solution to miscommunications, it only depends whether you wanna find out for yourself, rather than blaming the other party for everything. I believe that if a group of people who have been together, be it friends or colleague should cherish their relationships and always solve out any problems that might come up their way. It's just not worth it to see people shutting each other's off their lives, ain't it?
The next time you get into argument with anyway, I dare you to stay calm, and understand the whole problem and solving it without raising your voice. Do it my way, if you can.
Yet to lose his cool with arguments,
Robb
2 comments:
I accept your dare!
As I mentioned in my recent anger management article. There's always solutions to any problems. It's within our hands to control how we are going to react. The more anger you put in, the more cells in your body you gonna injured.
Communication is important in a relationship. How many of us really take that into consideration?
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