Life as a Gay Men
No picture post, random gay babbling
Sometimes I do wonder.
As much as gays are much accepted widely among the city folks these days, but what is the real sentiment behind the people who accept us? Yea, sure some are totally tolerant about us and stuff, while some people merely tolerate or accept us just because the majority of the city people do and they're 'forced' into peer pressure to accept gays.
A tweet from a close friend kinda prodded me into writing this post. He mentioned that as much as he accepted me, but deep down inside of him, he can't help but to feel a little irked about people like me.
I mean, sure, to straight people, gays are just humans who just happen to like someone from the same gender. That's kind of only half the real definition of gays.
If you happen to be straight and claim that you accept gay people, perhaps you need to re-examine what is the true definition of gays. The true definition of gay means man having sex with another man.
Are you able to accept that? Yes, it's some sort of a sword fight between 2 and in the end of it, 1 sword concedes and gives the other its sheath.
Seriously, not many straight people are able to go through this imagination and say they are okay with this. If you are somehow irked by the imagination, that means deep down inside, you're still uncomfortable about gays.
I'm not trying to push for anything here today, but I'm just expressing regret that people are accepting gays 'just to be cool' which is wrong. People should accept or reject gays based on their own principles. I don't really care if my close friends tell me they ain't cool about my sexuality. If they wish to cut all ties with me, so be it. However, if they ain't cool about me putting my sword into another person's sheath only, that can be arranged that I never mention anything about sex life in front of them.
As shared in the first sentence, this is a random babbling post. Just ignore this.
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Robb
Sometimes I do wonder.
As much as gays are much accepted widely among the city folks these days, but what is the real sentiment behind the people who accept us? Yea, sure some are totally tolerant about us and stuff, while some people merely tolerate or accept us just because the majority of the city people do and they're 'forced' into peer pressure to accept gays.
A tweet from a close friend kinda prodded me into writing this post. He mentioned that as much as he accepted me, but deep down inside of him, he can't help but to feel a little irked about people like me.
I mean, sure, to straight people, gays are just humans who just happen to like someone from the same gender. That's kind of only half the real definition of gays.
If you happen to be straight and claim that you accept gay people, perhaps you need to re-examine what is the true definition of gays. The true definition of gay means man having sex with another man.
Are you able to accept that? Yes, it's some sort of a sword fight between 2 and in the end of it, 1 sword concedes and gives the other its sheath.
Seriously, not many straight people are able to go through this imagination and say they are okay with this. If you are somehow irked by the imagination, that means deep down inside, you're still uncomfortable about gays.
I'm not trying to push for anything here today, but I'm just expressing regret that people are accepting gays 'just to be cool' which is wrong. People should accept or reject gays based on their own principles. I don't really care if my close friends tell me they ain't cool about my sexuality. If they wish to cut all ties with me, so be it. However, if they ain't cool about me putting my sword into another person's sheath only, that can be arranged that I never mention anything about sex life in front of them.
As shared in the first sentence, this is a random babbling post. Just ignore this.
Random
Robb
6 xtra squirt(s):
but why did u have to mess up my view on those lovely sausages! lol
I doubt your friend accepts them just to be cool.
I know I love cracking jokes of dubious ethics, I think they are overall fine people but the ickiness is introduced when you see fags, which I know you strongly believe are not classified as just gays; and I do share your sentiment on that.
That said, I think the main fear is that a gay might want to randomly sleep with us (which is a nono for us), just like what goes on in the head of a straight guy when he sees a hot woman.
Actually a lot of ppl don't accept gays, they find them disgusting or wrong (on moral/religious grounds).
They just give the appearance of accepting because that's what asians do, they don't say it to your face - they say it to someone else behind your back.
Things which are all too pleasant on the surface are never as they seem.
ky: hahaha. sorry man
yh: hmm.. i think ppl need to think less on pointless things especially if u're a man who is capable of protecting urself and take action for every situation you're in.
gareth: sigh, asian culture tires me sometimes. don't u get tired of it?
"If they wish to cut all ties with me, so be it"
*bow down to you*
i like this statement...i nearly never bow coz the plu vampire usually never bow...you deserve my bow:)
Quite true of what ShaolinTiger said. I have frens that told me they are cool about it but behind my backs they talked about me. Then I got to know about it from another fren.
But there are those that tell me to the face that they are fine with it as long as I don't show my gay-ness to them. But they have to bring out the issue that I am gay whenever I msn them. Always stressing that I am gay as if I don't know I am gay.
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