Sex Life for Couples
Oh hai!!
Let's talk about something more matured today. Sex.
Yes, I'm talking about the humping action, in out stuff and yea the penetration part too. Not necessary only referring to gay sex but to straight sex too.
You see, humans are damn fucking bitchy. It's in our genes to get complacent, complain and get bored of stuffs no matter how good they are. The same applies for sex in this case.
See, even babies get bored easily. What else you?
Ask around, all the couples who have been with each other for a long time. How are their sex lives going? Well, since we're in Malaysia, you'll probably not get a very accurate answer from their mouths. But do trust me that most couples who have been together (this is defined by living together) for like say, 3 years, will had done a lot to hype up their sex lives because if they didn't, they would have probably broke up already.
It's normal for new couples to get lovey-dovey, buying each other gifts every now and then, throw out a big surprise for each other birthdays. In return of those gifts and surprises, the person throwing out those stuff gets laid real good. Lol.
Those are the sweet start for every relationship. I have to admit, that's nice. But the cold hard fact that people have to face is, things like these don't come much often once you're together with each other for a much longer time. In fact, once a couple stabilizes and stays together, they are more concerned about sustaining their lifestyles which involves better food, accommodation, entertainment and etc which translates to focusing on their careers.
In the long run, both parties might be too busy or exhausted to go after the small details of celebration for each other. To top that up, sex would also reduce in frequency since both parties obviously know what their partners' genitals look like and how it works. Topping it up with exhaustion from work, most couples would just sleep through the night without sex.
This doesn't mean the couple no longer loves each other, it's just that sex... is missing. That's all
Then at 1 point of the time, one of them (the couple) who has higher need for sex would realize this and try to do something about it. Of course, if he/she does something by telling his/her partner and experiment new kinky shits (role-play, bondage, toys, etc) that would be great to revive their sex lives.
But, if this person seeks for new pleasures outside the meadow... which means looking for fresh meat other than his/her partner, then the saga of cheating bf/gf/husband/wife begins.
Let's just hope you won't end up being the guy, getting caught having an affair with someone's wife
All in a nut shell, I'm just trying to put forward that all humans share the same bitchy traits that they get complacent, bored and even urge to have a variety in life. Some takes action to ensure everything is all right, some keep it within them (till god knows when they'll explode) while some just embraces it and gratifies themselves.
If you're someone very happy in your relationship, don't forsake it and don't get worried too early. No matter what you promise will not happen, will happen in due time. But do take the necessary action that you yourself will be happy to.
Till then, enjoy your sex lives young couples!!
Still have good sex life
Robb
Let's talk about something more matured today. Sex.
Yes, I'm talking about the humping action, in out stuff and yea the penetration part too. Not necessary only referring to gay sex but to straight sex too.
You see, humans are damn fucking bitchy. It's in our genes to get complacent, complain and get bored of stuffs no matter how good they are. The same applies for sex in this case.
See, even babies get bored easily. What else you?
Ask around, all the couples who have been with each other for a long time. How are their sex lives going? Well, since we're in Malaysia, you'll probably not get a very accurate answer from their mouths. But do trust me that most couples who have been together (this is defined by living together) for like say, 3 years, will had done a lot to hype up their sex lives because if they didn't, they would have probably broke up already.
It's normal for new couples to get lovey-dovey, buying each other gifts every now and then, throw out a big surprise for each other birthdays. In return of those gifts and surprises, the person throwing out those stuff gets laid real good. Lol.
Those are the sweet start for every relationship. I have to admit, that's nice. But the cold hard fact that people have to face is, things like these don't come much often once you're together with each other for a much longer time. In fact, once a couple stabilizes and stays together, they are more concerned about sustaining their lifestyles which involves better food, accommodation, entertainment and etc which translates to focusing on their careers.
In the long run, both parties might be too busy or exhausted to go after the small details of celebration for each other. To top that up, sex would also reduce in frequency since both parties obviously know what their partners' genitals look like and how it works. Topping it up with exhaustion from work, most couples would just sleep through the night without sex.
This doesn't mean the couple no longer loves each other, it's just that sex... is missing. That's all
Then at 1 point of the time, one of them (the couple) who has higher need for sex would realize this and try to do something about it. Of course, if he/she does something by telling his/her partner and experiment new kinky shits (role-play, bondage, toys, etc) that would be great to revive their sex lives.
But, if this person seeks for new pleasures outside the meadow... which means looking for fresh meat other than his/her partner, then the saga of cheating bf/gf/husband/wife begins.
Let's just hope you won't end up being the guy, getting caught having an affair with someone's wife
All in a nut shell, I'm just trying to put forward that all humans share the same bitchy traits that they get complacent, bored and even urge to have a variety in life. Some takes action to ensure everything is all right, some keep it within them (till god knows when they'll explode) while some just embraces it and gratifies themselves.
If you're someone very happy in your relationship, don't forsake it and don't get worried too early. No matter what you promise will not happen, will happen in due time. But do take the necessary action that you yourself will be happy to.
Till then, enjoy your sex lives young couples!!
Still have good sex life
Robb
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