Talking About Sex

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It's a known fact that sex sells. Check out what are the top searched words in any search engine and I assure you they're sex related. In fact, I'm sure some of my loyal readers are also reading my blog because sometimes I share tales of my sexcapades (though in a discreet manner).

As much as I'm open to conversations about things happening in my bedroom, I believe that somehow most of us just don't feel outright comfortable about discussing these topics. This is not because we are not capable of discussing these topics, but it's merely the society norms that we grew up with made us much more reserved in discussing topics related to sex.

In fact, some of us might even label those who discuss about sex as perverts. Name calling is definitely not nice, but there's nothing wrong to be curious about sex. After all, if sex is just a matter between 2 person behind closed doors, you'll never be able to find out more about what 2 person can do to each other in terms of sexual simulations and etc.

Enter MyORA which is part website, part online community and part magazine for adults to discuss, share, inspire or to get advice on anything to do with sex anonymously. The real deal is no doubt the anonymous part, because everyone is much reserved in the country we stay in, thus we normally enjoy asking daring questions under the mask of anonymity, don't we?

You gotta check out some of the things the site discuss. I would caution you that it might not be suitable for minor, but it is seriously enlightening for adults to read. Most of the stuff shared are very direct and open and one should read it only with the objective mind of learning (after all, if it's porn you're looking for, I'm sure most of us have our favorite sites bookmarked in our browser, LOL).

Take the Sexploits, Ora Confessions page for example. Oh my, things shared there are shockingly bizarre, but not unheard of. Let me give you some example of things confessed anonymously;

- i like to push banans in my gf waxed pussy and slowly eat them on there way out,drives her nuts
- I had sex with my GF best friend in oour living room while she was sleeping over...my GF was drunk in our bed room...
- I let 2 of my friends fuck in the back of my car whilst i jerked off in the front driving at the same time..

Mind you, these are true stories shared. I'm sure there are many Malaysians who have done much daring things. It's just that, we don't share them that easy as we are afraid of how people will perceive us if we do so. Compared to the stories shared there, my 'bold' adventures seem tame. LOL.

Besides this page, there are a lot of other pages where visitors can share and ask questions to find out more things about sex. Be it proper stimulation, sex toys, what's normal and advice on how to get things started/or fixed (if you need help there, LOL).

I prefer the Inspiration page much more as it discuss more topics of the real life rather than just focusing on just sex. Of course, the topics are still rather close to sex. For example, I personally know quite a few people who get very turned on if they're held submissively. Not the SM style, full bondage, candle wax and whip. I'm just talking of tying the hands up and restrained movements. Trust me, people do get seriously stimulated when they're tied up.


I'm not gonna turn my blog into another MyORA page. So if you really wanna find out more about sex, maturely, by all means head to that page at www.myORA.com.

The best thing about the page is, it is supported by Durex, the world’s number one sex brand. A level of community management and moderation is provided on the site to ensure it excludes any abuse or bullying. However, this in no way precludes freedom of expression and open and honest discussion. The safety and anonymity of community members is the site’s utmost concern which Durex is proud to affirm.

I agree with what Durex has came forward to set straight. Durex believes in;
- In being honest and open about sex
- Talking about sex is healthy
- Porn, media, music videos and gaming have kidnapped sex
- They have distorted the our view of real sex
- Its time set the record straight, to take sex back
- Sex should be celebrated
- Sex is good
- Better sex will make you healthier
- Sex is not dirty or smutty (unless you want it to be!)

Now bear in mind that the page is not suitable for minors who aren't prepared, but it is meant for people to find out information about sex in the most objective way possible. Hence, there are no dirty pictures in that website. Heck, even if a minor accidentally stumble on MyORA, I bet it does more good than harm compared that they stumble on real porn sites which just give them graphic sex with no explanation or information on how things really work.

In conclusion, sex is good, providing it is done legally and informatively. Sex would be really bad if you put 2 virgins together who have no prior information of what to do with each other on their wedding night.

P.S. Cybersex is lame. Don't believe me? Check this out.

Cheers
Robb