How Do You Know When to Stop?

Well, I'm sure a lot of us are good with flirting, ain't we?

We FB msg him/her. SMS, MSN, give him/her a call and talk. We ask him/her out for a date and we of course wants to shag him/her in the back of our mind.

Of course, when ya flirting, there's also going to be encounters where ya rejected. I mean, come on. You're not gonna be perfect in everyone's eyes, right? So, we learn how to deal with rejection (I'm guilty of rejecting a lot of people in Axcest).

Straight forward rejections might seem to be rude but it gives the best results to both parties. No one wasted time on anything.

Some prefer to give subtle hints. Not available, occupied with work, prior appointment, can't talk at the moment and etc. Now this is definitely tricky because there are a lot of rooms for error in judgment by both parties. Not something I'd recommend seriously. :/

Now what if the other party ain't giving subtle hints, but is just... very difficult to go out with? Think sudden change of plan, making you wait for an hour, takes a long time to get ready before going out, excessive developments that bring both of you nowhere. What would you do?

I'm not sure what you would do, but I'm calling it quit. I still do like him, but I guess we'll just be good friends and hell no am I repeating what I went through today for him.

Ahhh... I'm definitely gonna miss his cute smile.

P.S. Now I need a new target to fill my void. Any recommendations? :P

Cheers

Robb